Sing-a-Song:Help Me Find Way to Say Good Bye

 

Wow, it is the first time I write my opinion about new song. Hm, not really new, but still newer than the other, like Because of You or The More Boys I Meet.

Again, my lil, uhm, maybe not lil, but younger sister, tell me about this song. She used it as ringtone and said that I have to hear the original version (She was using some app to re-mix that song) And I like it.

She dried up in the desert

Drowned in the hot tub

Danced to death at an East Side nightclub

Help me, help me, I’m all out of lies

And ways to say you died

It reminds me to the day when I just broke up with my (ex) boyfriend. He was my work-mate and though we not spend whole work-time together, we used to going home together. We broke up on Tuesday evening and I tried my best, not to come at work with teary eyes or sad face.

I thought it would getting worse if my friends know that my relationship over. They would ask me, why? I know the answer but I was pretty sure that I would ended up blaming my self and can’t stop crying. I wanted prepare my self first, so I wouldn’t need to cry anymore. Crying is tiring, right?

I just share it with my close friends, but I asked them to keep it for themselves. Each time one of my friends that didn’t know, asked me about my boyfriend, I just give them smile or give random answer.

It might been easier if he wasn’t at the same office. And yeah, like this song, maybe it would be simpler if I could tell he already died. Mostly people will stop asking, or even if some of them still bother, the rest would give them ‘that-look’, to stop them.

However, I think there’s no easy way to say that your relationship is over. I choose to say nothing because I know whatever their responses, I won’t feel any better. Sometimes, sharing just make you confused and doubt the decision you already made before.

My suggestion, if you break up with your partner, instead of crying whole night, you better make the list, how to answer when someone ask where is your partner. My favourite one is like from this song, “Oh, he danced to death at an East Side nightclub”

Cheers!

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90’s Songs – It’s All Because of You

Because of You – 98 Degrees

They are one of my favourite boys. I’m not sure if they are 90’s boys or not, but Wikipedia told me so. I choose to believe.

I will write the lyrics for you, here:

You’re my sunshine after the rain

You’re the cure against my fear and my pain

‘Cause I’m losing my mind

When you’re not around

It’s all, it’s all

It’s all because of you

Well, how was that, ladies? Sweet, huh? And, guys, can you be as sweet as these guys? No? Ugh, okay. I won’t argue with you.

In my opinion, this song is the perfect song to sing with your partner, maybe during karaoke time?

The rhythm, the lyrics, always make me smile. I imagine if someday my boyfriend sing this song for me, do simple dance, give me that grin.. hm, still sweet for me, even my (future) boyfriend might be not a great dancer (I WISH, at least, he is a great singer)

When you fall in love, there’s a huge chance that when you hear this song, you would say, “Oh, it’s so me!”

And, yes, I agree that this song was describe well the beauty of falling in love.

Love make us strong, love give us joy.

If it don’t,then you can consider it wasn’t love.

Hope you have a happy love story.

Cheers!

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Sing-a-Song: The More Boys I Meet

It happened few months ago, my sis asked me to watch this video. She said that it was fun, catchy and playful. I watched and agree. I like the video though it just simple one, still eye-catching for me. You can see the video here: The More Boys I Meet. It was lyric video, you can sing along if you want. I will write the lyric here, though. I just like it too much :p

This boy here wants to move too fast

He sees my future as having a past

Well, I don’t think so

I don’t think so

 

That boy there, well he’s playing a fool

He thinks he’s funny and he thinks he’s cool

Well, I don’t think so

I don’t think so

 

Cheap date, bad taste, another night gone to waste

Talking about nothing in so many words

It’s not like I’m not trying

‘Cause I’ll give anyone a shot once

 

And, I , I close my eyes

And, I kiss that frog

Each time finding

The more boys I meet the more I love my dog

Here’s this guy, thinks he’s bad to the bone

He wants to pick me up and take me home

Well, I don’t think so

I don’t think so
Cage fights, PlayStation, X-Games, Raider Nation

Oversize pants with an ego to match

It’s not like I’m not trying

‘Cause I’ll give anyone a shot once

And, I , I close my eyes

And, I kiss that frog

Each time finding

The more boys I meet the more I love my dog

 

Why can’t they be like the one’s that mean everything to me

The warm and loyal, open and friendly

It’s not like I’m not trying

‘Cause I’ll give anyone a shot once

I close my eyes

And, I kiss that frog

Each time finding

The more boys I meet the more I love my
I close my eyes

And, I kiss that frog

Each time finding

The more boys I meet the more I love my dog

The more I love my dog”

-The More Boys I Meet, Carrie Underwood

 

I don’t have dog, just in case you wondering. But, this song has good point, for me.

Have you ever feel that way? Already try to give anyone chance, but ended up finding that they not deserve it? You give your best effort to someone. You try to enjoy your time together, but seems useless?

Well..

I have to say, it wasn’t your fault, or his fault. Blame it to fate.

You might met someone that attract you so much, but he never reply your text after your first date. Or you met someone that not as good as you wish, but never get tired to text you, even you give no response.

But, just because you not find the right one yet, don’t give up and feel like couldn’t find the right one.

Fall in love, broken heart, crush, it just another part in our life.

Your life wouldn’t end just because your single. But, your life might end if you pick the wrong lifetime partner.

My suggestion is, keep your heart and mind open. There is no perfect boy, perfect love story, or perfect you!

Be happy single, be happy in your current or future relationship!

Cheers!

😀

 

p.s Thanks for my mentor that inspired me to write this ;p

Sing-a-Song: Let It Be The Last

My shattered dreams and broken heart

are mending on the shelf

I saw you holding hands standing close to someone else

Now I sit all alone, wishing all my feeling was gone

I’d give my best to you

Nothing for me to do

But have one last cry

*

One last cry

Before I leave it all behind

I’ve gotta put you out of my mind,this time

Stop living a lie.

I guess I’m down to one last cry.

Cry

I was here,you were there.

Guess we never could agree.

While the sun shines on you,

I need some love to rain on me.

Still, I sit all alone,

Wishing all my feelings was gone

Gotta get over you

Nothing for me to do

But have one last cry

Back to *

I know I gotta be strong,

But ’round me

Life goes on and on and on, and on

Back to *

I’m gonna dry my eyes

Right after I have my one last cry

-One Last Cry, Brian McKnight

 

I can’t help but imagine how hurt it would be. Have nothing to do but one last cry. Makes me wonder, was the song-writer really meant it? Just one last cry? Or, like most of us, he keep saying it would be “the last” but actually,it seems like “endless cry”?

His picture already deleted from your phone but not from your heart. His voice was no longer recorded in your phone but stayed in your mind. He was not in your present but the memories remain.

All you can do is admit that it was hard but you have to let it go.

Cry if you feel need to. Fight when you feel like nothing to lose. Stop when you know you have to. Smile when you find the reason to. Love when you ready. Leave when you not needed.

Sometimes, broken heart was the great way to have a “better heart”

I love this pic, I got from tumblr long time ago and already forgot the source, so sorry.

“Time” is the best “doctor” for “broken heart”. You might cry every night until you get tired and fall asleep. Your eyes might dry later but the scar in your heart still and it hurt.

Even you know that it was the best for you, and know you have to move on, you just can’t to.

Everyone have different limit, different time needed to fix the broken heart. Just don’t give up on love, cause love is all we need to survive.

If you find love hurt you,feel like no one love you, start loving your self first would be great so you know love won’t hurt you. At least, love your self won’t hurt you.

I know I gotta be strong,

But ’round me

Life goes on and on and on, and on

I’m gonna dry my eyes

Right after I have my one last cry

Let me having my one last cry. I wish it would be the last one, at least for tonight.

Cheers!

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Sing-a-Song: Run and Love Your Life

I was playing SongPop on facebook when I hear one good song. I decide to watch the video and well, the song was awesome, just like what I thought. “Run for Your Life” by Matt Cardle. You can watch the video here: Run for Your Life *

And here’s the lyric:

“You need somebody who likes them self

Who lives for life and never calls for help

You need somebody to walk you back

Someone who loves you too before you ask

You’re worth more, you’re worth more than this

You can take a leap without the risk

There’s no time, there’s no time for this

Take your love and start again

So run for your life

Run for your life

If you leave me behind

You’ll get there in in time

You need someone who can stand alone

Who finds the way, instead of being shown

Somebody with confidence

Who’s strong enough to be hit more than once

You’ll find more, you’ll find more than this

Take the world that’s at your fingertips

Don’t waste time, don’t waste time on this

Take your love and start again

Run, run and don’t look back again

Run, run, one day you’ll understand

I’m not, no, I’m not who you think I am”

Sometimes, when you love someone, what hurt you the most is realize that they could be happier without you. You want to convince them how mean they were in your life. But you ended up wondering, would it be the best for both of you or just for you? They said love is unselfish. But, it almost impossible for me, love someone with no intention to have them. You might giving up at some point but still wishing for miracle.

Before I knew this song, I also like one song that I knew from my friend. She had one close-friend, boy. She already confess her feeling but that boy said he only can be her friend. They still close till the last time I talk to her. She said she tried to move on but always failed. And later, I figured what’s the problem. When we love someone, our “can” always defeated by our “want”. We can move on, we know we have to. But we not want to. We prefer to fight until the last drop of our blood. And, just like this song said, even when we give up, we still wait.

“So close but still far away, await the day when you’ll say

I will run, run, run for your love

Here I am, just in case you change your mind”

That was song from Golf & Mike, Run for Your Love. You can watch the video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCZHCpLjcuo

One famous quote: “If you love someone, let go. If it back to you, it yours forever. If not,it never was.”

Sadly, we have no guts to let go.

Anyway, I still have to say this.

Cheers!

😀

p.s Happiness is a choice 🙂